Navigating Early Career Uncertainty: Insights for New Graduates

Feeling Lost in Your New Job?

DEAR HARRIETTE: I recently graduated and entered the workforce, landing a full-time position in marketing. While I’m grateful for the opportunity, I feel a bit lost. The job is fine, with a supportive team and decent pay, but I don’t feel fulfilled. I wonder if I chose this field because it felt safe rather than being my true passion.

Now, I’m contemplating a pivot, but I’m unsure of where to go next. I’ve explored various industries, listened to podcasts, and conducted informational interviews, but nothing resonates. It’s tough when I see peers who seem to have clear goals while I’m questioning everything. I’m afraid of appearing flaky if I switch jobs too soon, yet I don’t want to be stuck in a career I never wanted.

How do I find direction when I’m still discovering my interests? Is this uncertainty common for early-career professionals?

— Just Getting Started

Advice for New Graduates

DEAR JUST GETTING STARTED: Be patient. A common mistake is to leave a job too soon. Take the time to learn as much as possible in your current role. Network and explore other areas of interest without comparing yourself to others. Many people experience multiple pivots in their careers; you don’t have to remain in one role forever. Focus on acquiring knowledge, skills, and building references before making a move.

Feeling Unsupported?

DEAR HARRIETTE: I’ve been feeling unsupported lately. Last year was challenging, and I felt my friends weren't there for me. I know everyone has their own lives, but I’m unsure if my expectations are too high. When I reached out for support during a major loss, they seemed distant. Have we outgrown each other? How can I express my feelings without sounding entitled?

— Feeling Neglected

Addressing Friendships

DEAR FEELING NEGLECTED: When you reached out, were you specific about your needs? Sometimes, people don’t know how to help if requests are vague. Evaluate what you need from your friends and communicate that clearly. If they remain unresponsive, ask them why. It might also be worth reflecting on whether you’ve been there for them in the past. If so, consider apologizing now that you understand their perspective.

— Harriette Cole is a lifestylist and founder of DREAMLEAPERS, helping people activate their dreams. You can send questions to askharriette@harriettecole.com.