Stop spraying generic resumes into the void. Career coach Beth Hendler-Grunt reveals a proven networking strategy called the 10/10 rule that taps into the hidden job marketâwhere most jobs are actually filled.
What is the 10/10 Rule?
- Pick 10 companies you're genuinely interested in.
- Find 10 people at those companies working in entry-level roles you'd like.
- Contact them with a personalized, respectful message.
"A lot of students are very afraid and intimidated to reach out to alumni or people they haven't met," says Hendler-Grunt. But "people are willing to help when you are focused, you have a plan, and you come in prepared."
How to Make the First Contact
- Use your college's alumni network or LinkedIn (filter by your alma mater).
- Send an email or LinkedIn request that:
- Opens with a commonality (e.g., same school, major).
- Expresses curiosity about their career path.
- Briefly mentions your skills.
- Asks for a 15-minute conversation.
"It's not just, 'Hi, do you have a job for me?' That's like asking to get married on the first date."
During the Conversation
- Set a brief agenda: thank them, say you want to learn about them, then share about yourself.
- Ask questions you can't Google: How did they get where they are? What are their biggest challenges? How is success measured?
- When talking about yourself, focus on three core skills with examples. Tailor your message to the person.
Closing the Call
Ask these powerful questions:
- Do you have advice on breaking into this industry/company?
- Are there trade organizations or networking groups I should join?
- Would you be open to staying in touch?
- Is there someone else you think I should speak with? Can you connect me?
"One person connects you to the next, and all of a sudden you have your own network. This is like the hidden job market."
If You've Already Applied
Even if you've submitted an application, reaching out to an entry-level employee or alum can help. They may flag your application, submit a referral, or share insider info. Mention you applied, highlight your skills, and ask about their experience.
Why This Works
As a new grad, your resume may look like everyone else's. Relationships give you an edge.
"People hire people â not a job board, not an ATS, not AI, even though it might feel that way. To get a job, you have to forge relationships with people."
Start with 10 companies and 10 contacts, and watch your networkâand opportunitiesâgrow exponentially.






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